How To Get Any Child To Stop Misbehavior & Listen

We all want happy, healthy kids. We love them with all we have. Even with all that love, they can drive us nuts. Well let's put a stop to that shall we. I have some tips to help your kids listen and behave at home and in public! Click Here!

• RESPECT If you want well behaved kids, you must establish respect. Respect is to avoid violation of. Now that sounds pretty good. First of all, you will never get respect without dishing it out. The best way to teach it is to show it. Appreciation is a big part of respect. If you are not getting a "thank you", demand it. Your children need to recognize your significance. Be consistent in what you say and do. Do not give in. You must always agree with yourself. Stop arguing. You do not have to explain yourself. You are the parent, the boss. Be assertive, meaning be aggressively self-assured. Get the respect you deserve.
• STRESS Stress can cause more problems than imaginable. Did you know your stress could be causing their stress.If your child is feeling uncomfortable or overwhelmed, they will act out. This is not done to spite you. Their brains just say "hey I don't feel right, so don't act right". Remember in school, you were taught the "fight or flight" reaction. This is exactly what is going on. Trying to fix misbehavior with punishment or rewards causes fear. They are either scared of pain or scared of not getting what they want. You can discipline without punishment. When your child feels in danger, they will fight or flight. This is not what we are working towards. If you can relieve their stress, you can relieve yours.
• COMMUNICATION Communication is key! You may be trying to solve the wrong problem. Your kids could have a valid need, like hunger, thirst, sleep, or just love. They may need some chill time. Maybe, there is too much excitement and they just need to calm down. Your little angels might not even know their behavior is inappropriate. Give them the information they need. There are certain ways to behave in certain places. Make sure your exchange of thought are clear. You cannot be affective without clarity.

All children are a handful. However, with the right tools, you can definitely lighten your load. Click Here!